FAQ

The questions I get asked most, answered straight.

What is the Co-Parent Command Center?

It's a set of tools from Signals & Structure that help you understand your parenting plan, organize your own records and walk into mediation or a hearing prepared. You can start with ALIGN on its own, or pick the kit that fits what you're facing, and every kit starts with ALIGN.

Is this legal advice?

No. I'm not a lawyer, and these are educational and organizational tools. They can't tell you what your plan means for your case or what a judge will do. Check deadlines and citations with official sources, and talk to a licensed attorney about your situation.

Who is it for?

Moms and dads at any stage, whether you're drafting a plan, living under an order or heading back to court, and whether you have a lawyer or you're doing this on your own. It works the same from either side of a case.

Which one do I need?
  • ALIGN, $149. Your parenting plan decoded, clause by clause. Code FOUNDING takes 25% off through 31 December.
  • Before You Sign Kit, $199. ALIGN, CADENCE and DECLARE, for when the plan isn't signed yet.
  • After the Order Kit, $379. ALIGN, CADENCE, SAGE, LEDGER and SENTINEL, for living with an order.
  • Back in Court Kit, $799. The whole suite, for a hearing, a modification or an enforcement motion.

Not sure? Two questions will point you to the right one, no email needed.

How does it work?

You buy it and your Start Here page opens right away. It walks you through adding three files to the AI you already use, then you say Start and add your plan. Setup takes about ten minutes, and it tells you plainly what's missing instead of guessing.

Do I need a paid AI account?

Yes. ALIGN reads a long document and builds several files, and free plans tend to run out partway through. It's designed and tested on Claude (Claude Pro is about $20 a month), and other paid AI programs can run it, though the output is variable.

What do I get when I buy?

An instant digital download, so nothing is shipped. Every kit comes with the tools, a Start Here page, a What to Gather sheet, the workbooks and templates, and your license. ALIGN gives you two documents by default, your plan decoded and a workbook, and three more when you ask for them: a hand-off for your attorney or mediator, a fill-in version for mediation and a letter to the other parent.

Want to see it first? Here's the After the Order Kit on a sample family.

Will my information stay private?

Your plan never comes to me. Everything runs inside your own AI account on your own files, and redaction is built in, so your kids stay by role and your address, school and case number never land on a page you hand to someone else. Please don't paste passwords, Social Security numbers or account numbers into any AI tool.

What if it doesn't work for me?

If your kit doesn't work on your plan, write to me within 14 days. I'll fix it, and if I can't, I'll refund you.

How is this different from OurFamilyWizard or TalkingParents?

Those apps are where you and the other parent talk, and they charge a yearly subscription for each parent. This helps you make sense of what's already there, including the exports from those apps, and you pay for it once.

Can I buy one tool on its own?

ALIGN is sold on its own. Everything else comes in a kit, because the tools hand their work to each other and most parents do better with the set that fits their stage.

Do you work with attorneys, mediators or GALs?

Yes. There's a page for professionals with a free copy to look at and a code for their clients. Coaches, parent educators and creators can join the partner program.

How do I reach you?

Write to me at carrie@coparentcommandcenter.com. I usually answer within one business day. If you're not safe right now, call 911, or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (or text START to 88788).