SIGNALS & STRUCTURE · QUESTIONS

Straight answers about what this is and what it isn't.

If something here isn't answered, email me and I'll tell you honestly, including when the answer is that this isn't the right thing for you.

Educational and organizational tools, not legal advice. Everything runs in your own accounts on your own devices.

The basics

What is Signals & Structure?

It's a set of plain-English tools for understanding your parenting plan and organizing your family law case, so a pile of messages and filings and receipts turns into one structured picture you control. It's educational and organizational, and it was built for parents doing this with a lawyer or without one.

Is this legal advice?

No, and I'm not a lawyer. These tools don't tell you what to file, don't interpret the law, and don't predict what a judge will do. They help you organize your own information so you can think clearly and work better with the people who can actually advise you. Verify deadlines, rules and any citation against official sources and a licensed attorney in your state.

Who is this for?

Parents at different points in this, whether that's drafting a plan before anything has gone wrong, sitting in a contested case, or years past a final order dealing with enforcement. High conflict is one part of the audience rather than all of it, and plenty of people here just want the calendar to be clear.

How does it work?

Each kit is a guided prompt plus templates and workbooks that you run in an AI assistant you already have. You paste in what you have, it walks you through the method step by step, and the output is yours. There's no account here and nothing to install.

Do I need a special AI tool or subscription?

No. It's tested on Claude and designed to work in ChatGPT, Gemini or Copilot, whichever one you already use. The kits are one-time purchases rather than a subscription.

What you get

What are the products and how do they fit together?

Foundations at $39 is the method, ALIGN at $149 decodes your plan and includes CADENCE, which is also sold on its own as the CADENCE Kit at $79, SAGE at $299 turns your messages into a record and includes ALIGN, and the Co-Parent Command Center at $799 is all of it plus LEDGER for the money, SENTINEL for keeping the record current, and the CONVERGENCE dashboard. Every tier includes everything below it. SENTINEL is also available on its own at $99 if you already have SAGE.

What do I actually receive when I buy?

A digital kit you download right away, which includes the guided prompt, the templates and workbooks for that tool, a quick-start guide, redacted sample outputs so you can see the finished result, and the license and disclaimer document. Nothing ships, and you can see most of the sample outputs before you buy on the work product page.

Will my private information stay private?

Yes, and that's the whole reason these run on your machine instead of mine. I never store your documents, your files stay in your own inbox and drive and folders, and every export belongs to you. I'd still take full names, addresses and account numbers out before pasting anything into any AI tool, and the method works just as well on redacted text using initials and labels like the child or the other party. Never paste passwords, Social Security numbers or financial account numbers anywhere.

What's your refund policy?

Because everything is digital and delivered instantly, sales are final, with two exceptions I stand behind. If something doesn't work the way I said it would, get in touch within 10 days and I'll fix it, replace it, or make it right, up to and including a refund. And if ALIGN's plain-language breakdown doesn't make your own plan clearer to you, tell me within 10 days and I'll refund it in full. Either way, email me with your order number.

Compared to what else is out there

How is this different from a co-parenting app?

Apps like OurFamilyWizard and TalkingParents are where the communication happens. This is how you make sense of it afterward. These tools work on information from any source, exports from those apps included, and they charge every parent a subscription every year while these are bought once and kept. More on the difference

How do I get started, or ask you something?

The free 7-Day Challenge is the easiest door, or pick the tool that matches where you are from the comparison. If you'd rather just ask, use the contact page and I usually answer within a business day.

Not sure where to start

The free 7-Day Challenge teaches the method one skill a day by email, with no card and nothing uploaded, and it works whichever stage you're in.

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If you're not safe right now

These are tools for organizing information, not for responding to danger, and your safety matters more than any of it. If you or your children are in immediate danger, call 911. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788.