The library · Free to read

Everything I've written down so far, sorted by where you are.

None of this sits behind an email or a card. Pick where you are and I'll put what's worth your time first, or read the whole shelf.

18 things to read and use

Free tools

Things you can use tonight

Whose weekend is it?Put your custody schedule on a calendar for the whole year, holidays included, in a few minutes.Free tool · 5 minutes The 7-Day ChallengeOne short email a day for a week, each with one small thing to get in order.Free · 7 short emails

Understand your plan

The words, decoded

Family court termsThe words everyone in the room uses and nobody stops to define, shown the way they look on the page.Reference · look up what you need Why the same argument keeps coming backA plan is a contract two people live inside for a decade. Here's how unclear language turns into the disagreement you have every month.6 minute read

See the work

Real examples before you buy anything

Case studiesSeven finished documents you can open and read, with nothing gated and no email asked for.Samples · open any of them Real documents libraryReal filings, redacted, because when I was representing myself what I wanted most was to see what one actually looked like.Samples · redacted

Know the system you're in

What nobody explains up front

What your co-parenting app won't doThe messaging apps timestamp what you both say. Here are seven things they were never built to do, from what your plan says to whose weekend it is.8 minute read Who is checking the work?I assumed someone checked the work in family court. Here's who actually does, with the Florida numbers behind it.Long read · Florida Questions, answered straightWhat these tools are, what they aren't, and what you get when you buy one.5 minute read

From the blog

Be the Shield

The two moments people dread when signing a divorce agreementBlog · June 2026 Works with your co-parenting appBlog · September 2026 The 2×2 that tells you what to respond toBlog · May 2026 Why more evidence can actually hurt youBlog · May 2026 Does anything in writing help your case?Blog · May 2026 305 objections in three afternoonsBlog · October 2026

Every post on the blog

Every tool, on its own page

Every tool here is part of the Co-Parent Command Center. Most parents do better with a kit, because the tools hand their work to each other, and each kit bundles the ones for your stage. If you already know exactly what you need, each tool has its own page.

  • ALIGNYour parenting plan, decoded, with Foundations.See it
  • FOUNDATIONSThe method, for you to learn and set up in about an hour.See it
  • CADENCEYour schedule on a real calendar.See it
  • SAGEYour messages, sorted into a dated record.See it
  • SENTINELYour record, kept current on a schedule.See it

Work with families? There's a partner program for attorneys, mediators and advocates.

When you're ready

Start with your plan

Every kit starts with ALIGN, because everything else depends on what your plan actually asks of each of you.

Find my kit See what ALIGN does